irresponsible was played on 2005-05-29 at 04:13 a.m.:

ok so i talked to her..she won't sign. i'm screwed. she wants me to move out..and then won't let me. i don't understand...

i don't get what she wants from me..or why she is doing this..

i'm so angry. god. i'm sooo angry.

i have to fucking go to work now.

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i consider myself terribly responsible. my grades are excellent..3.85gpa...i hold a steady job..for almost two years now..i dont' drink irresponsiblly..or drink and drive..i'm not sleeping around..i don't really smoke..and yet my mother just yelled at me for being out too late.

i've had the same cerfew sine i was 16. i'm almost 20 and i can't be out past midnight. how fucking ridiculous is that? i mean..the only places i go are lans and aarons. the past week i havne't been taking him home till about 4 am..but its bc weve been at MY HOUSE watching anime with my brother. according to mom..bad things only happen between 12 and 5 am..with in which if i venture out i will be surley raped and killed.

so...when i've been taking him home..thats the only place i go..my house..his house ..my house ..bed. and still she yells at me for being iresponsible and not making the right choices. its not safe she says..not a good decision..she says..i'm sorry but if she can't trust me when i'm fucking 20 years old i don't think she ever will. she said that its not safe on the roads..and i'm like...thats why i stay on the phone with aaron until i pull inthe driveway..just to make sure everything goes ok. how much more responsible can u get?!

she said that i've never made good decisions (wtf) i've never been obediant..never been perfect and if i can't do these things for her..and obey her rules then i odn't deserve to move out. i said that i am responsible nad her rules are ridiculous..if they were more reasonable...then she said..ok so my rules are ridiculous..so is my signature..go find someone else to cosign on ur apartment.

i swear the woman is unreasonable. i mean i talked to her rationally about this..the time..where i'm at..apparently i'm a burdon and all i do is add to her worrying bc she knows i'm out. shes like..when u can get ur apartment u can do whatever u like..and i'm like..so when i move out i'm suddenly mature enough to do what i want?...and ur worries suddenly go away bc i'm not there? while i'm living next to troost in missouri 26 miles away? suddenly i'm safer? yea..ok..i think i'm more mature nad resonable that she is ever going to be..

then she like..u'll understand when u have kids..i'm like..when i have kids i will have enough sense to trust them by the time they are 20..and if i dont' i seriously fucking up raising them.

i'm so angry. she always does this. makes me feel like a stupid child uncapable of making my own choices..and when i do they arne't her choices so they are wrong. fuck this shit. fuck me.

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